Would you expect a recovering narcotic addict to attend a party or function with cocaine on the tables and heroin in the bathroom?
It's not JUST that he/she would be tempted to use. It's not JUST that they would be leery and embarrassed. It's just not a pleasant, life-affirming, something you'll remember always situation. And that's all I'm gonna say on the matter. Anyone asks me I'll tell the whole honey truth.